Parents Should Pay Attention to Smartphones for Children

At some point, most children want to have a smartphone – but parents are skeptical. Rightly so! There are a few things mothers and fathers should keep in mind when their first mobile device is on the gift table.

Strict prohibitions often do not help parents. At some point there will come a time when mothers and fathers simply can no longer say “no”. The begging, the eternal comparison “But Benno has had one since Christmas”, annoying. Then it’s on the birthday table: the first smartphone for your own child. Although you never wanted to.

But smartphones for children don’t just have disadvantages. According to a survey, parents primarily allow their children to have a smartphone because they can then reach each other at any time. An understandable reason.

The first smartphone for your child – what you should pay attention to now:

Before we give you tips on how to use smartphones, consider whether a cell phone might be a better way to get started if the only thing you want to do is make it easier for you to reach each other. Especially when your child is still young, you can gently introduce them to the new device. If you then notice that they use their mobile phones very responsibly, you can still think about a smartphone.

Kristin McKenny, media coach at FundClear Crowd recommends a first own Smartphone at the earliest from the age of eleven – and only if the child already knows how to use the PC, Internet and Laptop, etc.

1. Usage times (smartphone rules)

It is best for parents and children to jointly determine the times of the day and to what extent the cell phone can be used. The smartphone should definitely be switched off at school, when studying or during homework times.

It would be good if the youngsters only pick up their smartphone as soon as they leave the house and turn it off when they go to bed at the latest. When you are together, the smartphone should be taboo for the whole family.

Sometimes the enthusiasm for the first smartphone is so great that verbally agreed resolutions are quickly thrown overboard. To prevent this, it is best to give your child a parent-child contract with the smartphone. A document signed by the child and the parents encourages the discussion about the risks and gives the whole thing more emphasis.

2. Keeping an eye on costs

For example, T-Mobile and Mobilcom Debitel offer extra child rates for their customers. These are particularly inexpensive, special numbers can be blocked and parents can sometimes be reached free of charge. If possible, you should not give your child a mobile phone with a contract without a cost limit.

Think about sharing your child’s cell phone bills. By sacrificing a small part of their pocket money each month for the smartphone, they learn to appreciate its value and use it sensibly.

It is also advisable to first provide a less expensive (used), handy and insensitive smartphone.

3. Parental controls on smartphones

The internet and digital devices such as smartphones harbor opportunities and dangers for children. It is important that you first accompany your children and see together which applications can and cannot be used (and why!).

If children have little experience with the Internet, the My-Home app, for example, is   ideal for taking the first safe steps on the World Wide Web. This is because you install an Internet browser that only opens child-friendly websites.

Secure access to the app store with a password and deactivate WiFi, GPS and Bluetooth – at least initially.

4. Consideration

Loud music, game noises or phone calls in public are extremely annoying. Here, too, parents should “guide” their children. This way they learn to be considerate of their environment and not to unnecessarily disturb other people with their smartphone. The children can hear music and game noises well with headphones. Telephone calls on the bus or train should only be made in urgent cases. In addition to the disruptive factor, the people sitting next to them can overhear everything. Do you really want that?

5. Support – we are here for you!

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